As I was walking out of work with my coworker, I headed towards my normal parking spot. Looking… looking…am I going crazy? Like, “Chels, where’s my car?” I keep walking and you know that wave of panic that washes over you…yep. As I got closer, I saw my door handle on the ground. Oh, it’s…
Author: Kat
Do You Keep Track of Who Shows Up
Why are we surprised when our people don’t show up?
Why I Became a Midlife Coach for Women
The life that I have lived and learned from has directed me to my path for my next life’s purpose and why I have become a Midlife Mindshift Coach for women.
When Family Ceases to Matter. Not Everyone is Welcome at my Table.
Not all relationships are worth saving. This includes your family.
It’s Over. Time to Move on. Delete that Sh*t!
Indulging in cocktails with my friend the other evening, the conversation turned towards her daughter, who was going through heartache. Her daughter’s ex—someone she had been with for five years—just married the woman he had an affair with only 10 months prior. Despite the hurt, her daughter hadn’t purged her space or her social media…
Learning to Accept Aging
I woke up in a hotel in Miami. Heading out later for my first ever cruise soon. I didn’t sleep well, I rarely do unless it’s my own bed. I roll out of bed and head over towards the bathroom. As I pass the mirror, I stop and look…just look…very closely. What the hell! I…
Starting Again and Feeling…..What do I have to Lose?!
Am I ready? Can I do this? Do I have Time? What if nobody likes what I say? How can I compete? These are just some of the questions reeling through my head as I re start my blog. As well as how do I stay motivated? How do I get inspired? Does it even…
Tired of Being In Limbo
What am I doing? I am just wasting so much time. I don’t have a designated time to get up so I lay in bed for hours in the morning reading all the crap that is going on in the world. I’ve never been so in touch with what is going on outside my bubble…
Happy Father’s Day to Me
YES! Of course I celebrate Father’s Day for myself. Wasband has been out of the picture for over a decade. I play both roles so yes, I am the dad. I know, I know…but you aren’t biologically a dad…you are a mother. Yes, true! But a mother wears many hats: the cook, the maid, the…
Attempting Minimalism During Lockdown
Everyones doing it! Cleaning closets, getting rid of stuff you don’t use, going through storage totes of crap, clearing out the file cabinet. Yes, I still have a small black file cabinet of papers that are important car receipts, courtroom and divorce papers, doctor papers and random stuff that I hold because I think I…